Does Dr. Neil Clark Warren (founder of eHarmony) know something about me that I don't? Honestly.
Over the course of the past year, I have found myself communicating at LENGTH with several people on eHarmony. Why is it that these guys are on a site for RELATIONSHIPS when they are really looking to date? I think the funniest thing yet, was when someone told me after 3 (seemingly good) dates that he was really just looking to date...not looking for something serious. I also recently went on a few dates with a guy and then never heard from him again. He even removed me from his google chat. Really?! Is that necessary? I didn't pester him, and frankly I had left the communication ball in his court after two un answered emails/texts.
I guess in either case, I am better off without them. If someone doesn't have the decency to at least let me know they are no longer interested, then I don't want them in my life anyway.
Even though the concept of eharmony is great, I don't have any more patience for the site. I'm going to spend some time in preparation for being in a relationship that is hopefully headed for marriage. I have been praying and studying and reading every Christian book on dating/relationships that I can get my hands on. As I get more and more involved with my church, I think more opportunities for meeting eligible bachelors will present themselves. :-)
To end my eHarmony rant....If you aren't looking for an actual relationship, don't waste either of our time by going through the lengthy communication process. Stop the madness! :-)
